Just curious

[girlyswot]

I've lost count of the number of stories I've read in which Hermione or Ginny or some other HP female is giving birth surrounded by positively hordes of Weasleys and assorted other characters.  Hermione, in particular, always seems to expect both Ron and Harry to be present, even if neither is the father (yes, I read EWE stories!).  And if they're not actually in the room, the entire extended family and friends are all anxiously waiting outside.

Now, I have never given birth, nor been present at a birth, but from what I understand, in the UK it's normal to have one person (usually the father of the baby) or possibly two (a mother, sister, close friend) present at the birth.  But I wouldn't expect anyone else to be hanging round in the hospital.

So, my question is, are these fics written by teenagers who have no clue what really goes on, or is it actually the usual custom in the US for anyone and everyone to turn up for a birth?

Comments

[girlspell.livejournal.com]

In the US, usually the father is there. It certainly was my experience. They told my husband when he came in the delivery room to stay out of the way of the doctor/nurses just in case. In my case, I gave birth on the way to the delivery room. My mom wanted to sit by me, and she would have been allowed. Usually its the dad or the women's mom. They do draw the line at kids under 12. Once in a while children are allowed (if they behave really).

[girlyswot.livejournal.com]

That sounds much more normal!