Just curious

[girlyswot]

I've lost count of the number of stories I've read in which Hermione or Ginny or some other HP female is giving birth surrounded by positively hordes of Weasleys and assorted other characters.  Hermione, in particular, always seems to expect both Ron and Harry to be present, even if neither is the father (yes, I read EWE stories!).  And if they're not actually in the room, the entire extended family and friends are all anxiously waiting outside.

Now, I have never given birth, nor been present at a birth, but from what I understand, in the UK it's normal to have one person (usually the father of the baby) or possibly two (a mother, sister, close friend) present at the birth.  But I wouldn't expect anyone else to be hanging round in the hospital.

So, my question is, are these fics written by teenagers who have no clue what really goes on, or is it actually the usual custom in the US for anyone and everyone to turn up for a birth?

Comments

[nundu-art.livejournal.com]

I think it's only 'normal' for those folks who are on 'The Baby Story' (a TV show in the US). My birthing coach (back in the dark ages) strongly suggested that we ask for no visitors until baby and I had been home for a few days. Our parents, etc., honored that.

My daughters (neither of whom are any where near providing grandchildren yet :( ) have both told me they have no intention of having an 'audience' in the delivery room. They don't intend to expose themselves to anyone but the essential medical personnel and their husbands. Seems quite reasonable to me!

[girlyswot.livejournal.com]

Quite right! Anyone who wasn't at the conception doesn't need to be at the birth.