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girlyswot ([personal profile] girlyswot) wrote2007-10-09 09:36 pm
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Just curious

I've lost count of the number of stories I've read in which Hermione or Ginny or some other HP female is giving birth surrounded by positively hordes of Weasleys and assorted other characters.  Hermione, in particular, always seems to expect both Ron and Harry to be present, even if neither is the father (yes, I read EWE stories!).  And if they're not actually in the room, the entire extended family and friends are all anxiously waiting outside.

Now, I have never given birth, nor been present at a birth, but from what I understand, in the UK it's normal to have one person (usually the father of the baby) or possibly two (a mother, sister, close friend) present at the birth.  But I wouldn't expect anyone else to be hanging round in the hospital.

So, my question is, are these fics written by teenagers who have no clue what really goes on, or is it actually the usual custom in the US for anyone and everyone to turn up for a birth?
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[identity profile] tdu000.livejournal.com 2007-10-10 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
Why would you want your in-laws or brothers present. Why would any of them, except possibly Molly, want to be there. It's really pretty gruesome and definitely undignified (maybe not for Fleur!). I think in the muggle UK (but I'm not sure) the mother has to have nominated people to be present or they can't be there.

I know quite a few men who find watching their wife give birth quite traumatic and I can definitely see Harry in being like that. I'm sure he'd be there for Ginny . . . but Hermione?
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[identity profile] girlyswot.livejournal.com 2007-10-10 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
I can't imagine why you'd want anyone to be there who didn't have to be. A friend of mine had a baby yesterday. Last week they were asking if anyone had a camcorder they could borrow to video the birth. EWW!!!! Who would EVER want to watch that film? Except possibly the mother when she's contemplating a second and needs to remember how hideous it was...

I think Harry would find it traumatic too, though I think Ron would take it in his stride. Only for Hermione though. I can't see him as anyone else's midwife of choice!
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